When navigating divorce with children, having a clear and fair parenting plan is essential. Below is a sample “Default Parent Plan,” designed to address key areas of co-parenting and ensure the best interests of the child are upheld.
1. Communication
- Between Parents: Parents may use any communication method to discuss issues related to the child.
- With Children: Each parent may have daily, reasonable, and uncensored contact with the child through telephone, video calls, text, mail, or email during appropriate hours.
2. Education
- The child’s school will be based on the custodial parent’s residence.
- Both parents will have equal access to school records and may check the child out from school when necessary.
3. Records Access
Both parents are entitled to access educational, childcare, and healthcare records and should consult each other on significant decisions.
4. Travel
When traveling over 150 miles or for more than three days, the traveling parent must provide the other with an itinerary and contact information.
5. Notification of Events
Parents must share information about important events involving the child, such as school activities, performances, and other milestones.
6. Special Events
Special events, including family functions, weddings, funerals, religious holidays, and important ceremonies, will take priority over regular parent-time.
7. Transportation
Transportation arrangements for parent-time will be coordinated between the parents before each scheduled visit.
8. Decision-Making
Each parent will make day-to-day decisions for the child during their time. Emergency decisions will be communicated to the other parent promptly.
9. Dispute Resolution
If disputes arise, parents will first attempt negotiation. If unsuccessful, they will submit the matter to mediation.
10. Tax Exemption
Parents will alternate claiming the child as a dependent for tax purposes annually.
11. Child Expenses
Medical and dental expenses will be shared equally. The parent incurring the expense must provide proof to the other parent within 30 days.
12. Childcare Costs
Both parents will equally share work-related childcare expenses.
13. Additional Child Costs
Extracurricular activity costs will be split equally, provided both parents agree to the expenses in writing beforehand.
Why a Parent Plan is Essential
This plan ensures structure, reduces conflicts, and prioritizes the child’s needs. Co-parents can adapt it to suit their unique circumstances, but clear communication and mutual respect are vital to its success.
For more guidance on tailoring a parenting plan to your specific situation, consult a family law attorney or mediator to ensure legal compliance.
